You Can Support Your Adult Children Without Taking Away Their Autonomy

Wondering when to step in—and when to step back? This practical guide gives you a simple Green Light, Yellow Light, Red Light framework for knowing when to allow the struggle, when to offer support, and when it’s time to step in. You’ll also get a quick “Am I Helping or Rescuing?” check to help you support your adult child while still leaving them in ownership of their life.